Sunday, February 28, 2010
LOVE
Thursday, February 25, 2010
SNOWBLOWER
This is the 30th winter I have endured the frozen 'north.' As a born-and-bred Missouri boy, we got snow. As I remember, at least. But I didn't have to get out and shovel it much. Not that I remember. Spoiled, I know. But frankly, it was Missouri. So if you just waited a couple of days, the warmer weather would just take care of it, so it really wasn't any big deal. That I remember.
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
DAYTON
Yesterday afternoon I had the chance to go downtown to Kenosha’s Dayton Hotel (pictured at right) and scrape off the ol’ vocal chords and dust off the keyboard to play, sing and lead some choruses for the folks staying there. I used slides of our Israel trip to talk about the Gospel. Thanks to Ken and Darlene Rokusek for the invitation. They minister there regularly.
Monday, February 22, 2010
HAGGARD
We had the opportunity to have Ted Haggard (at left) in our building today, hosted by David Nelson of Great Lakes Church.
Sunday, February 21, 2010
GAP
In every relationship there is a gap between what we expect and how other people actually behave. It happens in every relationship. I EXPECTED you to do THIS, but you did THAT.
You said you’d be here at 4:00; it’s 5:00 and you’re STILL not here.
You said from now on you’d take care of those responsibilities, but they’re STILL undone.
You promised you’d call to take care of that, but you haven’t.
You said you’d never do that again, and now you’re doing it again.
And particularly in MARRIAGES - there’s a GAP between what we expect --- what you said when you were DATING - what you repeated at your WEDDING VOWS – all the PROMISES -- and what the reality is.
And here’s the choice you make all the time. In every one of these gaps we either choose to believe the best or assume the worst. We put one of those in the gap … every time. I don’t have to go any further for you to know which your partner does – but it’s way HARDER for you to see what you do.
Here's what it looks like to put BELIEVE THE BEST in the gap …
‘I know she’s LATE, but she’s had so much going on, I’m sure she’ll be here – there’s a very good reason for what is happening’ … believe the best.
OR … ‘She’s late again ... probably paying NO attention to the time – just like always. She’s probably on the phone with her sister.’ And it happens right there in the gap – assume the worst.
And we start to develop an attitude – all based on WHICH one we fill the gap with. People who make VOWS to each other … when you find those people and they’re still crazy in love – you won’t find people with no gaps – you ALWAYS find gaps. But what you’ll find is - those people have - a majority of the time, learned to fill the gaps with believe the best. Which means, they are generous. They come up with GENEROUS explanations as to WHY there’s a gap and that’s a beautiful thing to watch and hear.
Saturday, February 20, 2010
STAFF RETREAT II
Friday, February 19, 2010
STAFF RETREAT I
Tuesday, February 16, 2010
DISRUPTION
Sunday, February 14, 2010
GUARD
Today was a chance for both Joelene and me to share in the morning services as a team. Since it was Valentine's Day today - and since it was also the beginning of a brand new series - and since the series is called "THE VOW" and is all about relationships and marriage - we decided to go all out and 'dress' for the occasion. That's us today in the posted pictures.
All of us have stuff inside – and you don’t know what’s in you until you get bumped --- and most of us don’t get our first real big hard gut-wrenching bump until we get into a FULL TIME romantic relationship.
And this is why people who make the ultimate commitment to each other end up madder at each other than anyone else on the planet – and he is absolutely sure the reason he reacts is because she gets on his nerves and she keeps saying that thing and doing that thing and she knows full well how mad that makes me … but the truth is, the reason he reacts that way is because that response is already in him. And she is pretty sure if he would just stop and if he would just start and if he would just do more of and if he would just continue and if he would just do less of, then she wouldn't be reacting that way ... but the truth is, she responds that way because that's what is already in her.
We all have stuff in there. But most of us blame the person we’re most in love with for what comes out of us.
The writer of Proverbs gives us some help on this. This is the smartest guy on the planet, remember? He knows everything. He wrote Proverbs - and Ecclesiastes - and Song of Solomon - and he writes in Proverbs 4:23 - 'ABOVE ALL ELSE ... ' which means what I'm about to tell you is as important or maybe more important than everything else I've said so far - and that's quite a mouthful coming from Solomon, the wisest guy on earth. He says - more than anything else - THIS IS IT ...
And if you’ve read much of his work, you know this guy talks about everything ... MONEY – WORK ETHIC – FAMILY --- RELATIONSHIPS --- SEX --- GETTING OLD --- FUTILITY OF LIFE ---- and yet, HERE he says … "Above all else, guard your heart.' (Proverbs 4:23) Which means, give great attention to what is going on INSIDE you.
In Bible times, the heart represented the seat of emotions – and Solomon says, “I want you to GUARD that part of you --- your EMOTIONS. I want you to pay ATTENTION to them – cover what is valuable. I want you to PROTECT and DEFEND your heart.”
Now – if I were to suggest that each of you share your personal strategy for GUARDING YOUR HEART, most of you would say, “I’ve never THOUGHT much about that before.” It almost sounds like psycho-babble – what does it even MEAN? So if we think that’s just some cute BIBLE SLOGAN, chances are we’re not really doing it – yet SOLOMON says it’s the most important thing you can do. Above all else, guard your heart. But let me tell you what we ARE really good at. We’re not that great at guarding our own hearts, but we’re really good at monitoring our partner’s behavior. We’re really good at examining what they do – what they don’t do – what they say – what they don’t say – we’re great at monitoring that.
In your relationship with that person you've made vows to – the one you love the MOST – you want to FEEL a certain way. We know our feelings are unreliable … they don’t always mirror the truth … they can’t be trusted. But here’s the REALITY about our FEELINGS. You DO want to feel loved – you want to feel accepted – you want to feel embraced. Ladies, you want to feel pretty ---- guys, you want to feel respected ---- you want to feel confident – you want to feel cherished and valued – you want to feel taken care of. And let’s FACE it ... we were drawn into these relationships in the FIRST PLACE primarily BECAUSE of emotion. We loved the way they made us FEEL. We loved it when someone said, “Hey, look who they’re with.” We were drawn in because of the EMOTION this person created inside us --- and it’s NORMAL to want to keep those emotions alive.
So, to PROTECT ourselves, we monitor the OTHER person’s behavior. We try to get them to stop doing certain things – stop saying certain things – start doing certain things – start saying certain things – because we don’t like the way some of those things make us FEEL – or we LIKE the way certain things make us feel. And it’s totally normal to want that. The PROBLEM is --- and this is why relationships are so DIFFICULT) ... we come to DEPEND on our partner to CREATE those feelings in us and for us.
I’m depending on YOU – almost SOLELY – to make me feel confident, cherished, accepted, loved, secure … and all of that goes on behind the scenes in every relationship – and when stuff comes out of us that we don’t like, the tendency is to blame the person who we think brought it out of us – and that is TYPICALLY the one we’re in the closest ROMANTIC relationship with – but REALLY, it was already IN us to begin with.
And HERE’S the part I think your experience will bear witness to … your tendency to feel certain things is determined by the CONDITION OF YOUR HEART – and how well you’ve GUARDED it. And NO AMOUNT OF COMMITMENT can compensate for this dynamic of the CONDITION OF YOUR HEART. You may stay together because you’re 1,000% against divorce no matter what --- “We’ll just put duct tape down the center of the room – the house – the bed – we’ll just co-habitate.” But it’s the condition of YOUR heart that’s as big a player in this as anything your partner brings to the table. It’s about your HEART.
So if your HEART is in bad shape, it will be almost IMPOSSIBLE to maintain a healthy relationship in your marriage. And here’s the bottom line … what’s in you is going to come out of you regardless of who’s with you.
So 'guard your heart - above all else - for out of it flows all the blessings of life.' (Proverbs 4:23)
And be blessed.
Thursday, February 11, 2010
MINISTRY
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
FORWARD
Tuesday, February 9, 2010
V. V.
Sunday, February 7, 2010
CONTEXTUALIZATION
WE are placed as a church here in the city of Kenosha and the surrounding area. This is our CONTEXT. We love Kenosha. We’re not a church that is here to fight our city, but to serve the common good of our city. Our goal – our dream – our aspiration – our drive --- is not just to have a great church – not just to be great Christians – but to participate in the making of a great city. We weep over Kenosha as Jesus wept over Jerusalem. But to be the church God is calling us to be in our city, the Gospel must be contextualized.
The Gospel is always under attack by false teachers and those who want to do it evil, so the Gospel MUST be contended for or we lose the message of it. It must be earnestly disputed for ... debated in favor of ... passionately wrestled with and argued for. And Paul contends for the faith repeatedly in his writings.
We see it in the opening chapters of I Corinthians. Paul speaks of the blood Jesus spilled for our sins by dying on a cross for us … he HAMMERS on that topic. And then near the END of I Corinthians, he speaks in great detail about the resurrection of Jesus. He BOOKENDS his gospel with these truths that we believe today with such great FORCE.
And all the issues scattered throughout I Corinthians … sex, power, money, gender … how you deal with fame and lawsuits and sickness – issues that are the SUM TOTAL of human life on earth … Paul’s answer CONTINUALLY is the death, burial and resurrection of JESUS. It is the answer to every QUESTION. It is the hope to every LONGING. It is the ONLY solution to the problem of human disobedience – and Paul defends it and argues about it and contends for it in his Gospel.
And some of you – like ME – LOVE that ... because you LOVE to defend the Gospel up one side and down the other. If you hear about a false teacher or read a bad theological book that leads people down wrong paths – you’re ON it. You’re READY. And this is what the CHURCH becomes sometimes. It’s like your house - if you love your FAMILY and want to PROTECT them, what do you buy as a pet? Not a CAT … a DOG. And you put the DOG on the front porch. Let’s say a burglar comes. The CAT will totally IGNORE the burglar. But if the DOG sees someone walk by who seeks to do harm or hurt the kids, the DOG gets ferocious. We love the dog.
And there are certain Christians who, contending for the Gospel, are LIKE that. They have to DEFEND GOD and the KINGDOM and the GOSPEL and protect the TRUTH and the FAMILY of God --- and they’re out on the PORCH growling at everybody. But SOMETIMES they start GROWLING at the babysitter. The ice cream truck rolls by and they’re out there running after it, nipping at the tires. They want to flip the rig over and eat the ice cream man. And some Christians just get mean and start looking for something or someone to CHEW on.
Some churches become that. They’re all about contending for the faith. So they preach the Word, but nobody ever comes and STAYS because they’re just MEAN about it. Maybe they’re known for how deep they are, but it’s ‘growl and bite’ all the time.
At the same TIME, they’re saying, ‘We wish more people who don’t know Christ would come to our church,’ but they’re never GOING to – because it’s a conflicting message. The sign out front says, “JESUS LOVES YOU,” but it’s the same reason the family with the PIT BULL doesn’t have anybody coming over.
It’s important to contend for the Gospel, but we always remember that God doesn’t send us into the world to BITE unbelievers, but to BEFRIEND them … to answer their questions … to let them see JESUS in our words and actions. We’re sent to a city we love. We’re not PERSECUTORS ... we’re AMBASSADORS for Jesus ... and there is a specific culture God has sent us to.
So, once we have a clear Gospel and we’ve protected it and defended it, HOW and WHAT do we do with it? We ask God to help us understand how to make it accessible to a culture that no longer readily receives this TRUTH the same way some of US did years ago.
Most of us wouldn’t have a problem if we heard missionaries were headed to CHINA and they were going to have to learn a different language – listen to different music – eat different food – maybe DRESS a little differently – learn all about the new culture. YOU’D say, ‘Sure … they’re going to CHINA.’ But it’s the same if we send people to inner city Kenosha – or to hip hop culture – or even suburban culture. You have to find a way to contextualize the Gospel in a way that is appropriate for the people you’re trying to reach with the GOSPEL … because all cultures are different. Ministry to the inner city of Kenosha would be far DIFFERENT than ministry to people down the road living in the wealthy subdivision. Language is different. Approach is different. There are different struggles … different things are important to each … except ... they all need GOD.
So Paul says in I Corinthians 9:19 – “Though I am free and belong to no man, I make myself a slave to everyone, to win as many as possible.” He's talking about contextualizing the Gospel. When I walk into a culture, I serve people … I become familiar with what they WATCH ... I listen to their BANDS … I find out what they’re TALKING about and what they’re INTERESTED in ... I figure out who they ARE so I can find a way to tell them about Jesus. Why? To win as many as possible.
THIS IS IT ... because people in Kenosha need Jesus … and our goal is to win as many people as possible ... not as many as we can MANAGE or as many as we HOPE … but as many as we CAN. THAT’S why we have to contextualize the Gospel to our culture.
I have a ‘MISSIONAL’ suggestion for you. Drive the city. Drive it slowly and really LOOK at them. See their sins FORGIVEN … see them FILLED WITH THE SPIRIT … see them with a NEW and POWERFUL LIFE ... see them turning to GOD rather than to pills or a bottle when they need an ANSWER ... see them joining us to make this a great city for GOD.
Paul goes on – “To the Jews I became like a Jew, to win the Jews.” Was that fun? No. Try getting a ham sandwich with that approach. Paul went into Jewish culture which had a lot of rules and regulations and customs – and he said, ‘I’ll do whatever I need to do to WIN them – and I’m hoping they’ll walk away from some of that tradition and rule-keeping once they get to know Christ ... but for NOW ... ‘To those under the law I became as those under the law ... so as to win those under the law. To the weak I became weak, to win the weak. I have become all things to all men so that by all possible means I might save some.’ (I Corinthians 9:20b-22)
If Paul was alive today, he’d say to the hip-hoppers, ‘I did hip-hop’ … he’d say to FAMILIES, I talked about marriage and parenting … to the ARTSY, I did drama and music ... to the BOOKWORMS, I had a BLOG. I did it as many ways as I possibly could to as many people as I possibly could so as many people as possible could know Jesus. That’s the BEST THING IN THE WORLD we’ll ever do.
But I’ll tell you what gets in the way – tradition. Churches continually choose their past over their own future generations because they don’t want to change. And that’s a SIN. We THINK we’re preserving our children with that approach, but we’re LOSING them. And we will NEVER change the message – the death, burial and resurrection of Jesus for our sins. But the methods must change for the sake of that same Gospel. If in ten years we’re still singing all the same songs and doing the same things the same ways, then we’re in SIN … because we have not done everything we could to make the Gospel as ACCESSIBLE as possible ... to make it EASY for people to find and experience God.
So we’re in the process of redeeming so much of culture ... and we are called to contextualize it so AS MANY PEOPLE AS POSSIBLE HEAR about Jesus, MEET Him, and fall in LOVE with Him … and ultimately experience the great FORGIVENESS OF GOD and then become agents of transformation themselves. THIS IS OUR MISSION.
P.S. - Happy 26th birthday to our eldest daughter, Whitney, TODAY!
And be blessed.
Friday, February 5, 2010
CAESEREA - NAZARETH - MEGIDDO - MT. CARMEL
Final day in Israel. What a time it’s been. Life-changing. They say when you come, “You’ll never be the same.” So true.
We spent the final two nights back where we began, in Tel Aviv. This time our hotel was right on the Mediterranean Sea, and it was breathtakingly beautiful.
On the drive east from there we saw Mt. Tabor - or - the Mount of Transfiguration. It is a perfectly rounded mountain. To think about what happened there - Jesus, Moses, Elijah - amazing.
To me, one of the most spectacular vistas of the trip (pictured above left) - and something that far exceeded my expectations, was the visit to Caeserea where we saw the remains of yet another of Herod’s palaces. This palace, hippodrome and ancient community sat right on the edge of the Mediterranean. You could almost envision the decadent luxury that used to be here - the marble bath houses - the splendor - parts of which still remain. I am planning on showing some video in church on Sunday of this location because of the tie-in to the I Corinthians 9 passage I'm speaking from then.
Next, a stop at Nazareth Village, a replica of the Nazareth of Jesus’ day, where He would have spent his boyhood years. Our guide, Rani, was a native of Nazareth and a current student at the Evangelical Seminary located there. His passion for the Gospel was contagious and his insight into scripture was enlightening. I learned from him. We laid hands on him and prayed before we left.
Our next stop was the Valley of Jezreel and Megiddo (pictured above right), where the final battle - ARMAGEDDON - will, in part, take place. This was a sobering moment for me as I stood on that mountain overlooking the huge valley and imagined what it might be like. The valley is expansive, green and lush. It doesn’t know what awaits it.
Finally, Mt. Carmel - where Elijah challenged and defeated the prophets of Baal. I got a rock from this mountain and brought it home. Don’t worry. Our guide said it was allowed. Scripture says the prophets of Baal were thrown headlong off this mountain. When you’re standing there and see how and where that probably happened, it sends chills up your spine. The spot we were standing in really does have a very steep drop-off. We had a final devotional here at this site and it was another unforgettable moment (Thanks, Mark).
And be blessed.
HERODYON - WESTERN WALL - POOL OF BETHESDA - VIA DOLOROSA - GARDEN TOMB
Well, ironic or not, today is my 500th post since I began the blog in 2008.
Monday, February 1, 2010
ST. PETER IN GALLICANTUM - UPPER ROOM - OLD CITY OF JERUSALEM - CITY OF DAVID - HEZEKIAH'S TUNNEL
Yesterday was a very, very long day. Good, but long. I would have posted here to follow up the previous blog (as promised), but my legs wouldn’t let me get down to the Hotel Business Center to do it. It’s about 6 in the morning here now as I’m posting yesterday’s events, so you have to give me that. It is difficult to know what to talk about each day because every day is packed full of fascinating and powerful images.
We began yesterday with a powerful one - St. Peter in Gallicantum Church. It is built over the site of Caiaphas’ house. Beneath is a small cramped enclosed place where it is believed Jesus was taken to be questioned and beaten. It is a cold, stone-like dungeon where prisoners are let down thru a small hole far up above. Here was a powerful devotional moment presented by one of the trip pastors. We sang several choruses inside this small space and it was a moving moment.
Just outside the present day church is the area believed to be where Peter denied Jesus. Curiously enough, as we exited the church, a rooster not far away crowed.
From there we toured to the Room of the Last Supper, which is also the Upper Room, where Jesus’ followers gathered after His ascension. This is a momentous place for those of us in the faith who are filled with the Holy Spirit. It is here that tongues of fire rested on each head.
Underneath this place, now a church, was the tomb of King David. To view the tomb area, men had to be separated from women by a curtain. Each man also had to wear a kipa (yarmulke) to enter this space.
Next, we entered the Old City of Jerusalem via the Zion Gate. We visited various sites within a portion of the Old City. The city is divided into four quarters: the Armenian quarter, the Jewish quarter, the Christian quarter and the Herodian quarter. That's us above Old Jerusalem.
One other highlight of the day was a visit to the City of David. This was the city as it was 3,000 years ago, during the time of David. Situated just away from Old Jerusalem just a few hundred feet on a downward, sloping hill, you could easily imagine David spying Bathsheba from his position up high in his palace.
The daytime hours ended with a walk thru Hezekiah’s tunnel. Here had been a water passageway carrying water into the City of David from an outside source, hidden by King David so approaching armies would not be able to cut off their water supply. We only travelled about 5 minutes thru this tunnel and it was extremely tight and narrow (and low in places), but it was a great, fun adventure.
After a short break, we spent the night hours at The Citadel - a former fortress - where we saw a beautiful light display covering the entire huge wall of this enormous space. It depicted the history of Israel in a magnificent and one-of-a-kind light show. Following that, we walked down the street to the Eucalyptus Restaurant in the Artist’s Colony area, where we sampled “Biblical Israeli food” for a late dinner.
I can’t wait to see what today holds.
And be blessed.