Religion is like government - it has a way of complicating everything.
One of the things religion complicates is prayer. It makes it rehearsed, self-conscious, awkward.
Research has shown that while 8 out of 10 in the church feel comfortable asking for prayer out loud in a group, 8 out of 10 also feel uncomfortable praying out loud themselves. In other words, 80% of people had no problem verbalizing their prayer needs, but the same percentage were uncomfortable when asked to verbalize the very same things directly to God when others were listening.
We need to change that.
Prayer isn't for God's benefit; it's for ours. We approach God as our Father - sometimes you're talking business with your Father, sometimes you're getting instruction and direction, sometimes it's a heart-to-heart. The relationship and interaction vary based on what's going on in your life. All those conversations are valid. One isn't better than another. You want them all - the direction, the course correction, the counsel. It's all good.
And be blessed.
One of the things religion complicates is prayer. It makes it rehearsed, self-conscious, awkward.
Research has shown that while 8 out of 10 in the church feel comfortable asking for prayer out loud in a group, 8 out of 10 also feel uncomfortable praying out loud themselves. In other words, 80% of people had no problem verbalizing their prayer needs, but the same percentage were uncomfortable when asked to verbalize the very same things directly to God when others were listening. We need to change that.
Prayer isn't for God's benefit; it's for ours. We approach God as our Father - sometimes you're talking business with your Father, sometimes you're getting instruction and direction, sometimes it's a heart-to-heart. The relationship and interaction vary based on what's going on in your life. All those conversations are valid. One isn't better than another. You want them all - the direction, the course correction, the counsel. It's all good.
And be blessed.
10 comments:
When I was in a small group I would never pray out loud. I felt too self-conscious. I don't even feel comfortable praying out loud at home. I think it is good to stay focused so your mind doesn't wander to the 50 things you should have done that day.
If I really have a lot to say and I want to pour my heart out to God sometimes I write my prayer. As you well know it is my preferred way to communicate. And I stay focused. There's a site to send your emails to God. It go out to cyberspace where only God can hear.
I remember one time when I saw you, you asked me if I thought Billy Graham's prayers were listened to more than mine. I said yes. And you said we would have to get me over that. It is yrs later and I still have a hard time with all of it.
I can write all day (you know that) but I feel like a big knot of anxiety is in my chest when anyone wants me to pray out loud. I quit coming to the Prayer Nights because it was too awkward. Sorry...there is no hope for me. :(
Just because you come to the prayer nights, does not require you to pray out loud. I have been to many prayer meetings where I did not pray out loud. The enemy is just trying to discourage you.
Thanks Anonymous. I did like to go and pray for our city and all. When we all went into a prayer circle and most everyone prayed, I felt anxious. It seems that Pentecostal churches encourage you to pray and praise vocally. PK would know better than I.
"One of the things religion complicates is prayer. It makes it rehearsed, self-conscious, awkward."
When PK wrote this I would agree. When I was at work in a meeting or speaking amongst my friends I have no trouble speaking to my peers. When it comes to praying there is no one higher than God and his followers. I feel out of my element.
I understand people's reluctance and anxiety at praying out loud in front of others. Some, as anonymous suggests, have trouble doing it out loud even when they're alone.
I empathize and know this sentiment is rather widespread. Having said that, I will admit that it does mystify me that we have no trouble sinning to the 'nth degree' with God watching, yet we cannot say a simple prayer to Him.
It is mind-boggling to be sure.
Yes...you are right, PK. I know that I have and do break God's heart. There is nothing I can say.
And the real shame of it is -- it is so easily fixable. God forgives; God saves; God supernaturally changes people.
I am a selfish person. I'm not ready to give up my stronghold. I'm not proud of myself and I know I am wasting my life. I keep thinking I will get it together later and then God will save me. It's just the truth...
GOD loves selfish people.
There are so many times that you give a sermon or write something and I think....yes...I can and should do this. Then, sometimes you get right to the core of me and it makes me cry. It's not a bad thing, but it is a true thing. Then, I have to own my mistakes and sins.
PK, I always want you and my family to tell me the truth. You all are my accountability. It is those times that I stop and think about what I am doing. I need that so I don't coast and not think about how I am living my life.
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