Thursday, April 2, 2009

THUMB

I was talking with someone today and they were unsettled - even aggravated - that people text and Twitter during meetings and that it really does seem rude, distracting, dishonoring, etc. I'm putting some words in their mouth when I say that, but it was the basic gist of what they were feeling, I believe.

I did not completely disagree. At least, I totally understood where they were coming from. I have sat in staff meetings with our own group when as many as five different people were on their gadgets 'doing things.' At first, it kind of irked me. "What are you all doing while I'm trying to talk to you?" Very often, when I'm done speaking on a Sunday and finally get to my cellphone, I find there are Twitter messages from one or more of them commenting on the message, texting a quote from the talk to others, etc. I don't know if I should be irritated or honored.

I have watched my teenage daughter fly with her fingers across her phone without looking while she texts a friend. She is doing this WHILE she is talking to me and looking right at me.

Culture watchers call them the "Thumb Generation," perpetually connected to the world via digital devices they navigate with their opposable thumbs. But they aren't just cell phones. You don't even CALL them that anymore. Subway riders in Korea wave their gadgets over the turnstiles in the train station to pay their daily fares. Others flip them open and rotate them 90 degrees to watch satellite TV. On the same screen they 'page' thru an e-book version of their school textbook followed by listening to the latest musical hits. They send an average of 66 text messages a day, snap pictures and send them to friends and play online games where they might run a virtual grocery store. They cannot imagine their lives without 'the device formerly known as the cell phone.'

It seems we need to learn to work with the new generation who has a thirst for connectivity and is plugged in like never before. 'Generation Y' is wired with all 10 fingers.

Technology isn't new, but this 'Generation Y' is immersed in a way different from earlier generations who grew up with calculators and Apple II Plus computers. This technology is as vital as one of their organs. Rather than push them away, we might need to learn to adapt to their way of doing things, conducting more functions online, multi-tasking, interactive everything. The availability of cutting-edge, high-tech tools will directly correspond to productive and happy people that work around us. Including my daughter.

And be blessed.

9 comments:

jc hehe said...

Cute guys??

:~)

PK's BLOG said...

JC:
Yeah - well, I was thinking/talking about my daughter when I wrote that part. Did that come off wrong? Now I'm second-guessing that comment. I would hate for people to get a 'wrong idea' there.
:)

PK's BLOG said...

OK - I had to fix that 'cute guy' thing -- HAHA -- so if you're reading this and wondering what JC HEHE is talking about, you'll have to just keep wondering.

www.helpstaff.me said...

I find the best (and fastest) way I learn is by teaching it to someone else. Twitter has become that means for me. When I hear something good I instantly share it with over 1500 people via fb and twitter.

Great post man.

Heart of a Ready Writer said...

I have teen daughters . . . so I wonder not.

;-)

PK's BLOG said...

JUSTIN:
Hey man - thanks for reading and commenting. Appreciate it.

Anonymous said...

Lol....now I am curious about the cute guys.... :) Actually, I am more interested in men of character....however, texting is NOT my thing. I only use my cell phone in emergencies.

Working in retail it gets on my nerves when people are shopping and on the cell phone. I am trying to ring them quickly and move on to other guests or other things I NEED to get done and they are talking to someone and holding me up. At times I say I'll let you look while I go do something. I could care less how long they wait for me at that point. It's not my problem. I'm pretty nice, but it gets SO old...that and screaming kids. I hate that at church too....take them to the quiet room!!!! Please...

Lol...well, enough of that...time for small group.

Anonymous said...

I could not AGREE more with the person who believes that texting and twittering when in meetings & speaking to others is simply RUDE! Amen to that person - I bet he or she's not only smart but good looking too! : )

PK's BLOG said...

ANON:
OLD SCHOOL COMMENT!! LOL.